新概念阅读：-分开一段时间-让关系更加紧密[001].docx

新概念阅读："分开一段时间"让关系更加紧密
窍门一： 不要把“时间”当作特效药
Every relationship varies and it is important that every couple understandit has nothing to do with any of you in particular. Relationships can get so deep- and you both can connect as ”one ”so intensely that you neglect yourselves as individuals, and in order to re-discover yourselves, there will need to be some time apart from each other. Remember, you need to be whole as an individual first in order to be whole together as a couple, and time apart is best if one or both of you feel like you need to get back in touch with your individuality.


许多时候，每个人会在一段关系中发觉迷失了自我，或者背负压力、满怀怨恨，而这并不是针对伴侣个人。在每段关系中，为了使彼此关系安康幸福地进展，双方需要为彼此生活中的差异而妥协。而面对妥协和转变，双方都必需要放弃自己坚持的那一局部。 这种状况时常发生，你们会发觉自己完全失去了自我，彼此心力憔悴和心怀怨恨。这也并不是针对你个人。 只有当两个人合二为一时，彼此的关系才能如胶似漆的进展。这就需要你能临时忽视自己，并重新发觉自我，那么就需要与对方分开一段时间。请记住，作为个人，你首先必需是完整的，这样才能让你们的关系完整。而假如你觉得你需要查找内心的自我，分开一段时间是的选择。
Slow down the Pace to learn more about each other.
　　 放慢速度，充分了解彼此。
Some couples get so excited when they enter a relationship, that everything moves so fast, which can get stressful, pressuring and scary, in which a break is then a good idea as well. Taking time apart can help a relationship build a better bond because you will both replenish yourselves during the break and will then be able to give the relationship the effort