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高中英语美文短篇 高中英语美文
阅读经典美文可以丰富学生的知d couple that just didn t seem as though they should fit together -- yet they are both happy in the marriage, and you can t figure out why?
I know of one couple: He is a burly ex-athlete who, in addition to being a successful salesman, coaches Little League, is active in his Rotary Club and plays golf every Saturday with friends. Meanwhile, his wife is petite(娇小的), quiet and a complete Homebody(喜欢在家消遣的男人). She doesn t even like to go out to dinner.
What mysterious force drives us into the arms of one person, while pushing us away from another who might appear equally desirable to any unbiased observer?
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Of the many factors influencing our idea of the perfect mate, one of the most telling, according to John Money, professor emeritus of medical psychology and pediatrics at Johns Hopkins University, is what he calls our love map -- a group of messages encoded in our brains that describes our likes and dislikes. It shows our preferences in hair and eye color, in voice, smell, and body build. It also records the kind of personality that appeals to us, whether it s the warm and friendly type or the strong, silent type.
In short, we fall for and pursue those people who most clearly fit our love map. And this love map is largely determined in childhood. By age eight, the pattern for our ideal mate has already begun to float around in our brains.
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When I lecture, I often ask couples in the audience what drew them to their dates or mates. Answers range from She s strong and independent and I go for redheads to I love his sense of humor and That crooked smile, that s what did it.
Robert Winch, a longtime sociology professor at Northwestern University